TOT 184-WEEK 184
(TOTIM- TRAINING OF TRAINERS IN MEDIATION)
“Training in systematic use of Techniques”
(To be applied in advanced training)
Any technique has to be understood at Four levels:-
- Concept behind the technique
- What exactly is the technique?
- Application part – Skills to be applied – Why ? Where? How ? and When it is to be used
- What other techniques that may have to be incorporated?
Example:- Identifying issues
Important part of mediation lies in identifying the issue which needs to be resolved . The importance of such issue will have to be identified from the perspective of each of the parties.
Asking questions: What is more important to you? Why?
According to you what may be important to the other party? Why?
Party to a dispute may mention A, B, C as very important .. D and E as not so important- F and G as some thing which cannot be ignored.
Prioritizing
Ask the party to prioritize which of the issues is more important, that could be taken for discussion first . List the same in the order as indicated by the party.
Set an agenda
Inform the party that you would be discussing for the present , on only point (A)/First point., as indicated by the party .
Directing -redirecting- deferring :
Ask the party open ended questions regarding identified first issue.
Note:It is advisable for the mediator to note down the questions to be asked , or formulate the questions well before hand
As the party starts explaining , wherever the party is going to another issue, or speaking out of context use the technique of Directing and redirecting.
Summarising and
At the end summarise what is the opinion of the party on the identified issue.
And set an agenda for the next issue. Follow the same steps as indicated above.
How to give training in these aspects?:
- Choose a role play. Identify two parties.
- Ask each of the parties to explain the narratives.
- Ask the trainee mediator to go ahead with private session.
- Ask the trainee mediator to follow the steps as indicated above .
- Wherever the trainee mediator is not using the techniques effectively, trainer may coach the trainee mediator.
Training would be more effective if one of trainer of trainers takes the role of party and starts deviating from the topic /issue identified for discussion, in order to see how effectively the trainee mediator uses the techniques of directing- redirecting- deferring – restatement etc.
Follow up with debriefing:
Lead trainer has to debrief the whole process , so that in the debriefing the importance of understanding the concept, content, the techniques, skills and timing is brought in.
Advantages:
It helps in the best utilisation of mediation time .
Parties know what is happening.
Mediator knows what is to be done in the given session, and hence will be on track.
The systematic approach helps parties to think logically and they get clarity regarding the
solutions that they can expect for their identified issues.
Professionalism gets demonstrated – parties find the process as a dignified methodical structured process.
“If you’re too methodical, too fearful, you’re not going to win. But the clever thing is to make the calculation correctly about where and when to go over the top. You’ve got to know when to push it and when to come back.”
Collin McRae- World Rally Championship Driver’s title winner.
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