Confidence
A trainer’s confidence as a trainer is vital in any presentation. True confidence is the greatest strength of a trainer. However, it cannot be forgotten that as far as training is concerned “trainer’s confidence is an effect but not a cause”. This trainer’s confidence is the result of knowledge base and the efforts put in by the trainer. Focusing on the goal of training increases the level of confidence of a trainer. In order to be a confident trainer following steps may be considered:
Step 1: Identify the GOAL.
Step 2: Take a firm decision to achieve the identified GOAL
Step 3: List out things required to be done to achieve the GOAL.
Step 4: Work on the “to do list”.
Step 5: Don’t give up under any circumstances.
Example:
Step-1 Trainer’s identified GOAL – I have to give best presentation on the topic of Negotiation.
Step-2 Trainer’s Decision – I will do all that is required to give the best presentation.
Step-3 Preparing the “to do list”
I have to work on four quarters of presentation:
Contents
Segmentation
Presentation skills
Time Management.
In each of these quarters I have to do the following 1, 2, 3….
Step 4 Working on the “to do list”
I will not ignore anything from “to do list”.
I have done this, this, this….
Step 5 Not to give up
I will not give up working on this. I will not get demotivated. I will enhance reasons for learning and will work hard on myself.
What makes a trainer confident?
“KNOWLEDGE AND PREPARATION”
Preparation
“Appropriate Preparation builds confidence.”
Origin of over-confidence:
A self-talk within the mind of a trainer feeding false assurance:
“I am better than anyone here. I know much more than the trainees. Trainees do not know anything about the topic I am dealing with. The topic is new to them. With my oratory skills I can take them along with me. Even if I commit mistakes no one can notice.”
Such affirmations may work temporarily. But they will have permanent negative consequences.
What does a trainer with overconfidence do?
An over confident trainer:
- will postpone preparation.
- Will not do adequate preparation.
- Will boost himself with inadequate preparation.
- Will try prepare overnight.
- Will try to prepare on the training floor when the other trainer/s is/are holding the session.
- Will try to get one are two points from the co-trainers, and decides to elaborate on those points, banking upon trainer’s presentation skills.
- Will read from the book, notes/slides for the first time during the training and try to explain it to the audience.
- Talks without substance.
- Speaks more on the topics other than the topic allotted to the trainer.
- Copies down something from the google/smart phone/jots down and tries to explain it for the first time without even understanding the same or internalizing the concept.
- Gives exercises/role plays without even going through the same.
- Gives some reading material which the trainer has read on the previous night which according to the trainer is interesting, without analyzing the relevance or otherwise of it to the given context.
- Poses as though the trainer knows the subject in depth even when the trainer does not have the requisite knowledge base.
- Wastes time repeatedly telling ‘The topic is very important’ and does not speak on anything related to the topic.
- Uses extra, unwanted sentences. “More chaff with less grain”.
- Does not understand the difference between talking/dialogue/lecturing and training.
- Unnecessarily repeats a simple concept.
- Tells the same point in different sentences/in different languages again and again.
- Repeats the concepts already dealt with by other trainer/s and well understood by the trainees.
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